Hakomi Somatic Mindful Psychotherapy


Who would benefit from Hakomi?

  • Individuals who have some experience in mindfulness and body awareness.

  • Individuals who have access to self-regulation and coping skills.

  • Individuals who have cultivated some safety exercises and resourcing.

  • Individuals who have some experience in therapy or have been building toward more self awareness and body attunement.

  • Individuals who are ready for more intensive, deeper embodiment work.

  • Individuals who are ready to confront what their body is communicating with them with honor and compassion.

Who would not benefit from Hakomi?

  • Individuals who are currently in crisis or at a risk for harming themselves/others.

  • Individuals who currently meet the criteria for needing higher levels of mental health support.

  • Individuals who struggle with dissociation, hallucinations, or delusions.

  • Individuals who are uncomfortable or do not feel quite ready to invite a greater awareness and quiet, slow sense of understanding of their body’s emotions and sensations.

Hakomi Principles via the Hakomi Institute:

MINDFULNESS

In the words of Ron Kurtz, “The principle of mindfulness refers to the understanding that real change comes about through awareness, not efforting.” Instead of guessing or interpretation, Hakomi uses mindfulness—a state of relaxed, nonjudgmental awareness–to study, activate, and directly experience the root causes underlying our habitual feelings, thoughts and behavior. As both practitioner and client embody this deep state of nonjudgmental attention, unconscious material gently surfaces that’s not typically accessible through conversation alone.

NONVIOLENCE

Most people see therapists as “experts” with superior knowledge whose directives they need to accept. Many therapists also hold this view. Hakomi practitioners practice nonviolence by gently guiding the therapeutic process, but never superimposing their perceptions over what feels right to the client. Another use of nonviolence in Hakomi is befriending and supporting “resistance” and psychological defenses instead of trying to confront or overpower them. This allows the defenses to naturally soften, revealing their inherent wisdom and supporting deeper inner exploration.

MIND-BODY INTEGRATION

This principle affirms that mind and body jointly manifest and reflect the beliefs we hold about ourselves and the world, which in turn influence how we experience and express ourselves in life. Hakomi offers many practices for working with somatic material (e.g., habitual movements, gestures, posture and the body’s structure) to reveal the core experiences beliefs that they unconsciously express.

UNITY

The unity principle views people as living, organic systems–integral wholes composed of parts. Hakomi sees healing as a process that supports disconnected parts of the system to communicate so they can function as a harmonious whole. Hakomi practitioners recognize and work with the interdependency of all levels of the human system, including the physical/metabolic, intrapsychic, interpersonal, family, cultural and spiritual.

ORGANICITY

Assumes that when all the parts are communicating within the whole, we are naturally self-directing, self-correcting, and self-actualizing, with our own innate inner wisdom. In Hakomi, rather than imposing our own agenda, we support our clients’ organic unfolding toward wholeness, and trust that this is the direction that their system will naturally seek.

LOVING PRESENCE

Over a decade after Ron Kurtz established Hakomi’s core principles, he began to focus on loving presence as a core element of the therapeutic process. Although Ron never officially added it to his five original principles, we include it here to honor the centrality of loving presence in Hakomi.

Loving presence is the core practice that holds Hakomi’s five principles. One inspiration for including loving presence as a central element of Hakomi was research indicating that the personhood or inner state of the therapist is at least 8 times more predictive of therapeutic success than the methods used (Mahoney, 1991). Loving presence invites us to enter into a state of appreciation for the beauty, humanity and inspiring qualities within each human being. This practice supports people to move towards greater self-acceptance and self-love and brings nourishment and ease to both client and practitioner.


What would a Hakomi session look like?

The 4 techniques of Hakomi therapy include contact, accessing, processing, and integration

We would start by noticing if there’s any patterns you are tapping into regarding your body or the way you show up in the world, accessing your neutral awareness and contacting what sensations come up, allowing and welcoming them to show us what you need.

These sessions are slower, less psychotherapy and content driven. I will be paying more attention to your body’s cues, language, skin, facial expressions. It may include a lot of silence and listening and trying different movements, posture or positions your body is communicating.

The goal of Hakomi Mindful somatic psychotherapy is greater awareness, transformation through compassion and non-judgment, and lasting change in beliefs, behavior, and and emotional felt sense.

Please understand that Hakomi Intensives  are brief, one time, episodes of care and are limited in scope and duration. Hakomi Intensive lengths are mutually decided on between therapist and client, but typically range from 1-6 sessions.
Hakomi Intensives are not to be confused or substituted for ongoing individual therapy, and after each episode of care, clients will be discharged and will no longer remain on my caseload.